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Adomas Pūras, Ph.D.'s avatar

Such a wonderful introduction to the dilemmas surrounding the Filipino identity.

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Kate Heceta-Arellano's avatar

Personally, I've never really felt culturally isolated from the rest of Southeast Asia. Although of course I don't discount the experiences of those who do - I'm always cognizant of the fact that my experiences are only ever my own and I can't speak for anyone other than myself. But I spent a lot of time traveling amongst the ASEAN countries as a teen and young adult in my early 20s (because of course all those destinations are visa-free haha) and I also read Southeast Asian authors widely, and I think that helped me see and appreciate hundreds of tiny little similarities. One of my favorite things ever is when a post went viral pointing out that Southeast Asians all post online in a similar way - starting out their sentences in English and then trailing off in their respective native languages. And of course all the cultural similarities you mention here as well. I really, really, really loved reading this post!

I actually wrote something similar to this, although it's a lot more in my feelings and less rooted in evidence the way your post is haha. https://oatmilklatteboutique.substack.com/p/what-being-southeast-asian-means

Subscribed! I can't wait to read more from you!

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